{"id":835,"date":"2022-08-30T09:46:04","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T13:46:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/?p=835"},"modified":"2022-08-30T10:39:41","modified_gmt":"2022-08-30T14:39:41","slug":"catapulting-your-career-dreams","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/?p=835","title":{"rendered":"Catapulting Your Career Dreams"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/highheeledsuccess.com\/newsletter\/202208\/if-not-now.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>In 1996 my speaking colleague, Lori Kleiner Eckert, published the book, <em>With This Ring.\u00a0 <\/em>Excerpted from the forward of her book: \u201cUpon her grandmother\u2019s death, Lorie inherited her grandfather\u2019s ring.\u00a0 Recently, separated herself, she slipped her grandfather\u2019s ring on and slipped off her own wedding band.\u00a0 Feeling that some sort of vows were appropriate, she decided to make vows to herself \u2014 to become a quilt lecturer and teacher, to trust her inner voice, and to love herself.\u201d\u00a0 This is the dream Lorie pursued.\u00a0 The beautiful book is filled with photographs of her quilts, that include powerful and inspirational words.\u00a0 My personal favorite is the one you see to the left with the words, \u201cIf Not Now, When?\u201d\u00a0 This picture lives on my desk, in my car, on my desktop, in my journal, etc.\u00a0 These were words that rang in my head often, in the month of July, when I landed in the hospital quite ill.\u00a0 Many of the followers of this newsletter know about my bizarre bout with being sicker than I have ever been in my life.\u00a0 This experience gave me a lot of time for reflection and a perspective shift.\u00a0 My thoughts shifted to career dreams that have been conceived but not come to fruition.\u00a0 I know I am not alone in dreams deferred.\u00a0 This newsletter is dedicated to <strong>YOU<\/strong> my clients, followers, friends, and colleagues.\u00a0 If not now, when?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are soooooo many things that may cause you to put off career\/business dreams: \u00a0fear of failure, fear of success, perfectionism, money, time, life stage, lack of clarity, opinions of others, etc.\u00a0 My hospital stint reminded me of the fragility of life and that no more days are promised.\u00a0 My dear readers, if not now, when?\u00a0 Let\u2019s take a leap into moving your career dreams into reality!\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s focus on the obstacles before we move to my four-step process of getting these dreams out of your head and into reality.\u00a0 Some of your obstacles are quite real.\u00a0 Let\u2019s say you are currently in a job that is not using your talents and strengths to the fullest, but you have a side hustle that you love.\u00a0 You have a dream to expand your side hustle into a full-time business.\u00a0 Money may be a significant stumbling block for you.\u00a0 There is no doubt, there is gender disparity when it comes to lending.\u00a0 Data from the annual Federal Reserve Banks \u201cSmall Business Credit Survey\u201d shows that women-owned businesses apply for financing at similar rates to businesses owned by men, but women-owned businesses, on average, seek out smaller amounts.  They also are less likely to receive the full amount they sought\u00a0(43% vs. 48% of men).\u00a0 Women still have a long way to go to gender equality in the lending market.\u00a0 The Biz2Credit research found that the average size loan for women-owned businesses was 31% less than for male-owned businesses ($70,239) in 2018.\u00a0 There may be several legitimate challenges to your dreams, that doesn\u2019t mean they are insurmountable.\u00a0 The dream starts the process but the action brings it into reality.\u00a0 This process below will help you get that ball rolling.\u00a0 You don\u2019t want to suffer the regret of unfulfilled dreams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are the four steps I use with my clients, let\u2019s explore each:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Dream<\/li><li>Decide<\/li><li>Dedicate<\/li><li>Do<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Dream:\u00a0 There are plenty of people in your circle more than available to squash your dreams.\u00a0 Some of those Debbie Downers are well-intentioned, trying to keep you from pain and failure.\u00a0 Often these people are closest to you &#8211; parents, spouses, siblings, closest friends.\u00a0 Listen and sift.\u00a0\u00a0Perhaps in their warning framework they have some valid concerns.\u00a0 There are also people who have never allowed themselves to dream and can\u2019t conceive of going for it.\u00a0 Unfortunately, there are people likely in your circle that want to keep you right where you are.\u00a0 Your very success may be threatening to them.\u00a0 Learn what you can from these people but stay focused on the dream.\u00a0 You know your needs, talents, and strengths best.\u00a0 You know if these unfulfilled dreams will be soul-crushers for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Decide:\u00a0 This quote from author, motivational speaker and business strategist Tony Robbins is powerful.\u00a0 \u201cIt is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.\u201d\u00a0 You may plug along dreaming for years and suddenly something shifts, and you finally decide.\u00a0 From my perspective this is the most powerful component in this four-step process.\u00a0 After you decide, there is a weight that lifts, the conundrum is gone, and you often move forward with a rapid pace.\u00a0 Honestly, sometimes external experiences help you decide.\u00a0 I currently have a client who had been passed over multiple times for a promotion and raise.\u00a0 She is skilled, hardworking, and dedicated!\u00a0 After hearing of another person\u2019s promotion, that she saw as less deserving, she decided THAT day to seek out a career counselor.\u00a0 She spoke with a friend who she knew had used a career counselor and asked to be connected.\u00a0 Obviously, the counselor was me.\u00a0 Within three months, she had taken dramatic steps to be more visible and valuable to her upper management and received a promotion.\u00a0 Decide and dramatic things happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dedicate:&nbsp; Dreams take dedication.&nbsp; Sugar coating the dedication process is unfair to you.&nbsp; Perseverance is key.&nbsp; Your dedication may mean some sacrifice of time, money, leisure time, etc.&nbsp; When you want to quit because it\u2019s hard, having someone to encourage you along the way is essential.&nbsp; Often my clients say next to the skill sets they learn with me, my belief in them is one of the things they value most.&nbsp; You likely will remember someone in your life that kept you persevering when you were ready to give up.&nbsp; We all need those people who believe in us when we have faltered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do:\u00a0 Another favorite quote of mine, from author Joel Arthur Barker, focuses on the doing.\u00a0 \u201cVision without action is merely a dream.\u00a0 Action without vision just passes the time.\u00a0 Vision with action can change the world.\u201d\u00a0 You DO have to take action on your dreams.\u00a0 You must have an action plan, otherwise you will be overwhelmed, scattered, stuck.\u00a0 Action plans are an important part of career maximizing with my clients.\u00a0 Do you need an additional credential, do you need to know more about what it takes to succeed with your dream job, do you need to bolster your LinkedIn Profile?\u00a0 Without a clear action plan, your dream may only stay a dream.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There you have it, my four-step process for guiding clients into their dream job.\u00a0 There is so much more to do, but this information will get you started.\u00a0 Are you convinced you need more help?\u00a0 It would be my honor to guide you in fulfilling your career dreams.\u00a0 Call High-Heeled Success, LLC, (513) 561-4288 or email me <a href=\"mailto:Kay@highheeledsuccess.com\">Kay@highheeledsuccess.com<\/a> and we will get the dream machine into gear.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In 1996 my speaking colleague, Lori Kleiner Eckert, published the book, With This Ring.\u00a0 Excerpted from the forward of her book: \u201cUpon her grandmother\u2019s death, Lorie inherited her grandfather\u2019s ring.\u00a0 Recently, separated herself, she slipped her grandfather\u2019s ring on and slipped off her own wedding band.\u00a0 Feeling that some sort of vows were appropriate, she<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[3,1,17],"tags":[120,9,78,121,119,42],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7Qkhe-dt","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/835"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=835"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/835\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":840,"href":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/835\/revisions\/840"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.highheeledsuccess.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}